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Walking in Freedom

I have really enjoyed being with you all the past few weeks as we’ve discussed our sinful condition, and our savior who is victorious. I’m now really looking forward to this post, where we’ll be looking at all the ways that we can be tactical about our sin, and Lord-willing, be victorious over temptation.
This week, we’ll look at a few key elements that will help us to be as equipped as we can be in order to battle temptation. Those elements are:
- Being in the word
- Having Time
- Being in community
I want to add a little disclaimer here at the beginning. As a recovering legalist, I really love having bumpers on my highway. I really want to know steps to take to accomplish a thing, so that I know I’ve pleased God and checked something off my list.
However, that’s not how faith works. We must walk alongside God in every situation, every step of the way, inquiring of Him what His will is for us in the present moment. We must seek to do everything in His strength, and not assume we know what He wants us to do today, because He gave us an answer yesterday.
So, as I move into this week and look at some things we can begin to practice that put us in better readiness to resist temptation, I want to make clear that there is no formula for resisting sin. No formula, that is, other than drawing near to the Lord, and resisting the devil. As we previously discussed, we must strive to do everything in the strength of the Lord, or else our actions are meaningless. Anything done in our own strength is meaningless, because only the Father is the source of goodness and holiness.
Now, let’s get into the meat of this week and the crescendo I’ve been building toward. How do we battle temptation? What are biblical principles that we can harness? How do we do this thing called walking in righteousness? How do we deal with our guilt and shame when we fail? Because we will fail. How do we take part in bearing each other’s burdens? How do we support our fellow brothers and sisters and how do we ask when we need to be supported?
That being said, let’s look at a few ways we can begin to put ourselves in the right posture to resist temptation. The first area we’re going to look at is the most important. Thinking back to last week, one of the main observations we all had about Jesus’ response to temptation was that He responded with scripture. We were all in agreement that scripture was then, and is now all sufficient to combat temptation and to remind ourselves of biblical truths.
In order to resist temptation, we must be firmly rooted in God’s word.
For a believer, the Word of the Lord is not optional; it is essential. It is the foundation of our faith, the guide for our lives, and the source of our strength in the battle against sin and temptation. Through the Scriptures, we come to know God, discern truth, resist temptation, and grow in righteousness. Regularly engaging with the Word is key to living out our calling as faithful followers of Christ, and it helps us become more like Him in every area of our lives.
Think of how we looked at Jesus example last week: every time temptation came His way, his weapon to fight back was scripture alone. So…if we aren’t saturated in scripture….if we deprive ourselves our our weapon…what do we have to battle with?
2 Timothy 3:16-17 – “All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.”
What I think is interesting about this passage is the different actions the Word of God is credited as useful for. We have Teaching, Rebuking, Correcting, and Training in Righteousness. Basically, the word of God is useful for telling us everything we should be doing, everything we shouldn’t be doing, anything we need to change about what we’re doing, and…in case anything falls into a gray area, it is useful for training us under the broad umbrella of righteousness, and the ability to do any good work. When you start to get into the weeds of how that plays out in the life of a believer, the implications are truly asstounding. We all know that living in righteousness is not a simple thing. Yet we see in scripture that the word of God is all sufficient for showing us the way.
Romans 15:4 – “For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us, so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures and the encouragement they provide we might have hope.”
Hebrews 4:12 – “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to divide soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”
An elder at our church recently had something interesting to say on the subject of a two edged sword, as he is teaching through Revelation. He mentioned how in a battle scenario, a single edged sword wouldn’t move as fast. The person wielding it would need to pause at the end of a stroke and spin it around before slicing the enemy again. A two edged sword, however, can be in constant cycle of motion. No matter where the sword would be in its arc, the enemy would never be safe to approach it from any angle, because every angle has a sharp edge.
That’s just how it is with the Lord and the enemy! No matter what angle the lies of the enemy try to come from, the word of the Lord is there to slice them to bits, for our saving and the Lord’s Glory. When the enemy comes against us, with ill intent for our hearts and affections, we don’t have some impotent little dagger that we have to try to fling around. We can go barbarian on that defeated little serpent with the word of God and puree his lies like a blender!
Psalm 119:11 – “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.”
Psalm 119:98-112 – “Oh how I love your law! It is my meditation all the day. Your commandment makes me wiser than my enemies, for it is ever with me. I have more understanding than all my teachers, for your testimonies are my meditation. I understand more than the aged, for I keep your precepts. I hold back my feet from every evil way, in order to keep your word. I do not turn aside from your rules, for you have taught me. How sweet are your words to my taste, sweeter than honey to my mouth! Through your precepts I get understanding; therefore I hate every false way. Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. I have sworn an oath and confirmed it, to keep your righteous rules. I am severely afflicted; give me life, O LORD, according to your word! Accept my freewill offerings of praise, O LORD, and teach me your rules. I hold my life in my hand continually, but I do not forget your law. The wicked have laid a snare for me, but I do not stray from your precepts. Your testimonies are my heritage forever, for they are the joy of my heart. I incline my heart to perform your statutes forever, to the end.”
The word of the Lord in the life of a believer is not optional. It is our sword in the spirit and our shield to ward off the fiery darts of the enemy (Ephesians 6). It is our training in righteousness. It is the lamp to our feet that we may not stumble. It is our endurance. It is our hope. It is the reason we know our sin exists. It is the reason we know God. It is the reason we know our Savior.
Now the theory of all that is well and fine. Scripture is great, right? It’s lovely words on a page that comfort us and help us know our place and function in this world better. But what is the place of scripture when we’re about to lose our minds at our husbands over something? What is the place of scripture when we’ve seen an explicit image and really want to go back for a second take? What is the place of scripture when you’re all alone and no one would know if you indulged in “that sin”? What is the place of scripture when you’ve opened up a pornography website and wrestling with the desires of your flesh and the less-fun path that the Holy spirit inside you is pleading that you take?
What is the role of scripture in those ugly moments when we feel the least worthy of it’s grace, and we are in most need of its sanctifying work?There are a few points that I will offer here, on the tactical side as well as some more broad theoretical ideas.
First off, you can use scripture to pray. This serves a dual purpose, because when we use scripture to pray, we are simultaneously reminding ourselves of truth, as well as verbally and physically submitting ourselves. We talked back in week one about how verbalizing our sinful thoughts and temptations can be one of the steps to sinning, when we’re trying to see if we can sneak our sin under the radar and see if people around us are okay with it.
An example would be something like this. “Oof, that TV show everyone is talking about has some bad scenes in it, but I’m really wanting to know how it ended. I’m sure I can just skip the parts as they come up. That should be okay, right?”
This is an unhealthy way to approach that temptation. It is completely void of biblical principles, and is operating completely in human understanding. In this scenario, the person being tempted is really just looking for a way to justify what the flesh wants, even as they feel the tension of the holy spirit within them telling them that this desire really doesn’t line up with God.
Verbalizing our temptations, however, can also be a step in resisting the temptation. If I’m feeling tempted toward a certain area, I can speak that aloud with scripture to bring my sin into the light of God and seek his help. Picture something like this.
“Lord, I’m feeling really tempted to watch that show again. My flesh is telling me it’ll be okay, but I know that your word says otherwise. I know it’ll be hard to skip anything because it’s all so gripping. Lord, please help me to submit to your will. You say in your word that if we resist the devil, he must flee from us. Help me to resist. I commit to resist, in your strength, so the enemy and my own sinful desires must flee from me and my flesh must submit to your will. I will not unite the members of my body, which is a temple of the holy spirit, with this sin. Lord, please give me your strength and let your holy spirit reign supreme in all I do.”
Another example of handling temptation in an unhealthy way would be. “Man, my friend said something that is really offensive and hurt my feelings. Little do they know I have some verbal replies that will tear them down and show how little they are. Just wait until I see them again. I’ve been in the right all this time and now I’m going to show it.
A healthier approach would be to take those emotions to the Lord in Prayer. “Lord, I am really angry about what my friend said. It hurts my feelings, it makes me feel small, and I am really wanting to reply in my anger. I feel like my anger is justified because I have been wronged here. But Lord, I know that this response of anger will not be glorifying to you or bring my friend closer to Christ. Lord, I feel a hair away from just sending them a text to spit out what I have to say. I feel weak and I feel so so angry. Lord, in my weakness, please let your power be on display. You tell me in your word that a kind answer turns away wrath, but a quick response churns up anger. I know your will toward me is kindness and righteousness, so I know that is how you would have be respond to my friend, as your image bearer. Lord, please let me be the hands and feet of Christ in this interaction, and turn the other cheek as you did. Give me a response that benefits those who hear and gives grace to the listener. Lord, I submit my hands and my mouth to you, please, let the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be pleasing to you. I submit my flesh to your will.”
Now, I must add a disclaimer here. Speaking words like the prayers I just offered is not a quick fix in and of itself. You can’t just pray the words and then move on with life as if a prayer is a nice bow on the box of a job well done and that’s all there is for you to do. Depending on the temptation, you may need to keep praying repetitively for minutes, hours, or even days depending on the temptation. We may need to continue to crucify our flesh with the holy spirit and scripture. We know from scripture that we need to bear our cross daily for Christ. And we know from life that resisting temptation is not a singularity. We live lives of being tempted. We live in the tension every millisecond of our lives, between righteousness and evil. We are never done battling temptation.
Now you may be thinking, how can I say I submit my flesh to the Lord, if what I’m really feeling is like diving into sin? Isn’t it lying to say that I’m submitting if my emotions really aren’t? That is a perfectly valid question, and it is one that I’ve asked of myself. To that I would say that obedience is an objectively good thing we must do, despite how we feel. If we wait to submit to God or do his will until our emotions line up, we will be waiting a very long time to submit to the Lord and living a very spiritually stunted life.
On the flip side, though, if we keep choosing to submit to God, despite how we feel, our feelings will eventually catch up. Being obedient to God does not leave us feeling left out and like we got the short end of the stick. That’s not God’s plan for us. Choosing righteousness is not to mean we will always feel left out and deprived. None of us get the short end of the stick in God’s kingdom; despite the brokenness we experience in this world, each one of us is given abundant spiritual life in the Lord, even if that means missing out on some “fun” sin experiences.
Living in obedience is a continual lifestyle choice, motivated and sustained by the Holy Spirit through a lifetime. It is not an isolated action or moment of resistance here and there throughout our day. To follow Jesus is to lead a radical resistance against the devil in our hearts, and constantly surrender our hearts to Jesus.
To be extremely practical about how scripture can help us interact with our sin in a way that leads to victory, consider these ideas:
Is there a physical space where you face temptation more often than others? Do you want to dive into the snack drawer when you get home every day? Is your bedroom a place where your phone habits are harder to control? Do you always yell at your kids during schoolwork time because of their misbehavior and your own temper issues? Do you always view things you shouldn’t on the computer in your bedroom?
What scriptures can you arm yourself with before you enter those places? Can you put a sticky note with scripture on the snack drawer about gluttony?
Can you have a mature christian friend that you can have a standing phone call with to pray after you get home from work, while you’re still in the car?
Can you start your day with quoting scripture while you’re in the shower?
Can you put a scripture verse on your steering wheel and recite it when you get in and out of your car throughout the day?
Can you get a water bottle with a scripture verse on it and read that verse every time you take a drink?
Can you listen to a chapter of scripture every day while you load the dishwasher?
Whatever your strategy, I would encourage each and every one of you to find ways that you can get the word of God into your mind and soul every day. It is our most crucial weapon to have at hand.
We covered this briefly in week one, but I’d like to dwell on it a little now. It is very difficult to do any of this “sin battling” if you don’t have time. If you are rushing from appointment to appointment with no downtime or margin for God in our lives.
In order to resist temptation, you must have time for our spiritual health
It is important to have time, because our spiritual health and walk with Jesus is the most important thing in our lives. Now, notice that I did not say it “needs to be” or “should be.” Our spiritual health is the most important thing in our lives whether we make it a priority or not. It stays at a level one importance whether we think we’re doing alright, or acknowledge that we need Jesus more than ever.
To ignore our sin or neglect it out of laziness, is like knowing there is a bomb counting down under our bed, so we just move to the next room over so we can’t hear it ticking down. The bomb still exists, it is still ticking down the time, and it will still destroy our life if we don’t call in the bomb squad.
I’ll quote here again something I referenced in week one. Corrie Tenbaum says this, “If the Devil can’t make you sin, he’ll make you hurry.”
Walter Adams, the spiritual director of C.S Lewis takes this thought even a little further, “To walk with Jesus is to walk with a slow, unhurried pace. Hurry is the death of prayer and only impedes and spoils our work. It never advances it.”
Where we allocate the lion’s share of our time reveals our where we place the most value. And that’s not just me speaking, Jesus tells us in the gospel of Matthew, “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” That is from Matthew 6:21
Again, this is an overarching principle that can feel a little paralyzing to try and implement, so here are some practical points of thought.
Do an audit of your time. I did this recently with the help of a mature older christian woman, and discovered that I have way more time than I actually realize. Break down in detail; your work hours, how much sleep you need, and every other commitment you have. Include the time you spend on your phone, gaming online, reading magazines, or watching TV. Be brutally honest with yourself. The reality of how you use your time already exists, so don’t hold back to try and make yourself look better to yourself.
What do you do first thing in the morning? Do you reach for your phone and start scrolling? Do you sit on your bed and wait until the last possible minute until you get ready for work?
Do you wait for children to wake you up and then spiral away the rest of your day in the understandable chaos of keeping little humans alive?
Once that is done, take a look at all the blank space you have. If you don’t have blank space sufficient for prayer and scripture reading time…consider what fat you can cut. Do you really need to watch a TV show every evening? Do you need to listen to music on your morning commute, or can you listen to a book of the bible or sermon? What could you do differently about that routine? Could you wake up 10 or 20 minutes early to read a chapter of scripture and pray over your day? If a chapter is too much, could you read the verse of the day? Something that takes less than 10 seconds.
What do your lunch breaks look like? Do you scroll while you eat and then rush back to work? Could you leave your phone at your workstation, and read a passage of scripture instead, or simply sit in silence and allow yourself space to think?
We are all to be stewards of the time and gifts that the Lord has entrusted us with. If we don’t make room for Him as a priority in our schedules, no one else will do it for us.
We need to be in Community to see our own sin, to have support from the body/the church, and to follow the scriptural command to bear one another’s burdens.
Romans 15:1-2 – “We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.”
Ecclesiastes 4: 9-12 – “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor. For if one falls down, his companion can lift him up; but pity the one who falls without another to help him up! Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; but how can one keep warm alone? And though one may be overpowered, two can resist. Moreover, a cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
I really love this passage. There’s a real sense in just three short verses of how much we need each other for our very survival, as Christian brothers and sisters. We need each other to do the work of Christ well, because none of us are capable of doing it all. We need each other to help restore one another when we fall. We need each other to help one another resist. I think that is a very important point here. While temptation is something we experience alone, we can share the process of resisting with another member of the body. I have a friend who I often call when I’m facing a certain issue, and without fail they pray with me, point me toward truth, and help bear the weight with me.
Galatians 6:1-3 – “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted. Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. For if anyone thinks he is something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself.”
But a warning here…not just anyone can be in that kind of close relationship with us. What does the text say? It says “you who are spiritual” should restore the person caught in transgression. The place of a supportive and encouraging brother and sister in your life should not be just anyone. It would be inappropriate to let an unbeliever into that area of your life and ask for their support. Because they are not indwelt by the Holy Spirit and not living off the word of God, they would very likely not be restoring you but rather leading you astray.
It is also not appropriate because even a strong believer can be caused to stumble by sin, as the text says. The text prescribes that those who are spiritual ought to do the restoring, and even then to watch themselves, lest they too be tempted.
But this text also ends in such a beautiful way. A command to bear one another’s burdens, and in doing so we fulfill the law of Christ. I love this, because it harkens us back to the new commandment that Christ gave.
John 13:34-35 – “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.
In helping one another bear the weight of resisting sin, and the burden of our struggle, we fulfill the law of Christ, and show each other and the world that we are His.
Hebrews 10:23-25 – “Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.
Notice how considering how to stir each other up in good works…is in the same sentence as gathering together. Don’t get me wrong, in this modern world I am grateful for the ability to talk to friends on the phone while I do dishes or have a video chat with family in other states. But there is no substitute for physically being in community with our brothers and sisters in Christ. God created us to be in proximity to each other, physically.
We see this begin to be reflected and understood better by science as well. Even something as simple as a hug offered by a friend in a time of discouragement can have the following effects, because of the chemical reaction that God hard wired into our brains.
In a study conducted by Healthline in 400 adults, those who received regular hugs were less likely to get sick. In this same study, those who had physical contact with a loved one while experiencing pain, reported a lower grade of pain than those who were experiencing the pain alone.
This only scratches the surface, and doesn’t address the spiritual implication of being in physical spaces of community. But we begin to see where God hardwired us to be physically together. It is tantamount that we be in a healthy church community, and healthy christian friendships that support our health, both spiritual and physical.
1 John 1:7-9 – “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”
As this text says, if we are in the light with the Lord, then it follows that we have fellowship. There is a very real sense in which, if we are not walking in fellowship, we may not be walking in the light, or may at least need to reexamine our priorities.
Now, some tactical thoughts here, of course. Friendships can be hard! I totally understand and acknowledge that. It can also be very difficult to start building friendships as an adult if you haven’t done it previously. Being in a relationship, being open and vulnerable, is hard and takes a lot of faith. Our schedules are busy and it can often feel like it would just be better to keep our lives to ourselves and be a friendly smiling face once a week at church. I can feel awkward to try and instigate a friendship.
But I have good news…we’re all adults in this room, and we get to use our big people words.
As you begin to move forward in seeking relationships that move you toward christ and keep you accountable to the word, you can ask other mature sisters to be your friend or mentor. I myself went to an older christian woman and asked her to be my spiritual mother, because I was lacking that wise input into my life. I’ve asked friends to be accountability partners with me in the past. You can tell an already existing friend or an acquaintance that you want to deepen your friendship, and ask if they would like to do that with you. State your intentions clearly.
Like with our time, no one will make friends for us. We can’t move through life in a way that doesn’t leave time or space for friendships, and expect them to spawn out of the woodwork. We must put in work to being friends with people who will move us toward Christ.
I really don’t want to be closing out this week, and honestly, I feel like I’ve barely scratched the surface of this topic. There is so much more to say on the topic of temptation, and all the practical ways we can be fighting it. Really, I wish I had another 3 weeks with you all. But, in a way, I think it’s good that we didn’t get into the weeds of every topic, and the Lord isn’t giving me time to tell you what to do in every little circumstance. Because the goal isn’t that we have a perfectly laid out plan that allows us to walk through life with an armored bubble that doesn’t allow us to encounter temptation.
No, in this world we will face trouble and temptation. But Jesus has overcome this world. Jesus has overcome our sin. The goal here is that we walk with Jesus. The goal for your life and every moment you find yourself in is that you lean not on your own understanding, but on the finished work of the Cross.
Yes you will still wrestle with your sin. You will still face times of failure.
But know that the penalty for your sin is ultimately done away with and paid in full. The way of escape and the victory over that sin is there, waiting for you to walk in it as you choose the path of righteousness.
Galatians 5:1 – “It is for freedom that Christ has set you free. Stand firm, therefore, and do not submit again to a yolk of slavery.”
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
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Jesus and Temptation

So last week we looked at our sinful condition. We also looked at the pitfalls of relying on our own understanding when temptation arises, instead of going to the Lord and His word. We saw in scripture that we are sinful from the time of birth, our hearts/flesh/own understanding cannot be trusted. We cannot rely on ourselves to make the right decisions apart from Christ.
We saw this in the examples of Eve and Saul, who encountered situations where they needed to follow God’s word, even though it went against their own understanding, but chose to listen to their hearts leading to disaster.
We saw also that even though we are now delivered from the obligation to sin, we still suffer with temptation and our own sinful desires. As long as we are on this earth we are locked in a battle between our sinful nature, and the new nature that we have in Christ that desires to carry out His will. We’ve identified the problem in great detail, and now it’s time to start identifying the solution this week, before we figure out how to act on that solution next week.
I will give a little trigger warning here…I’m going to talk about some specific areas of sin related to our sexual desires. I hope and pray that those discussions will be an encouragement to you, and not cause anyone to stumble.
So, I think we can all agree that the ultimate goal would be for us to never sin, right? It’s also true that no human was ever sinless apart from Christ. So, this being the case, we should look at the first recorded case of Jesus resisting outright temptation. We’re going to read through a few accounts of Jesus’ temptation experience, starting in Matthew chapter four.
Matthew 4:1-11 – “Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. And after fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. And the tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread.” But he answered, “It is written, “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” Then the devil took him to the holy city and set him on the pinnacle of the temple and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written, “‘He will command his angels concerning you,’ and “‘On their hands they will bear you up, lest you strike your foot against a stone.’” Jesus said to him, “Again it is written, ‘You shall not put the Lord your God to the test.’” Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to him, “All these I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me.” Then Jesus said to him, “Be gone, Satan! For it is written, “‘You shall worship the Lord your God and him only shall you serve.’” Then the devil left him, and behold, angels came and were ministering to him.”
Mark 1:9-12 – In those days Jesus came from Nazareth of Galilee and was baptized by John in the Jordan. And when he came up out of the water, immediately he saw the heavens being torn open and the Spirit descending on him like a dove. And a voice came from heaven, “You are my beloved Son;d with you I am well pleased.” The Spirit immediately drove him out into the wilderness. And he was in the wilderness forty days, being tempted by Satan. And he was with the wild animals, and the angels were ministering to him.
The Setting / Context
Jesus was led by the spirit to be tempted. To me this implies that Jesus being tempted was part of the Holy Spirit’s plan. The spirit knew he needed to be tested. This is not to say that Jesus was being tempted by the spirit. The text directly says that he was to be tempted by the Devil, and James 1:13 explicitly says that God does not tempt anyone. But why did Jesus need to be tested in such an extreme way? He had already accomplished a feat of nuclear proportions by living a sinless life for decades up until this point. First off, he needed to do this because it was the will of God through the Holy Spirit. Secondly, I believe this sustains the words of Hebrews concerning Jesus…
Hebrews 4:15 – “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin
Another thing that stands out is where he was led to. He was led into a wilderness. He was led into a place where all his physical needs would be on display. His need for shelter, food, water, companionship. He was led into a place where all he had was his relationship with God.
Another point that I think is quite profound, is that this temptation began right on the heels of Jesus being baptized. Now we know that for Jesus to be sinless, he encountered and was victorious over sin earlier in his life. His sinless life did not start at the moment he was baptized. But what I find compelling is this; the moment Jesus made a public proclamation of his heart orientation, he was tested. He was led by the Spirit into a physical place that increased his vulnerability to temptation, and the Enemy was right there ready to attack him. The text from Mark says the spirit drove him into the wilderness. I think the use of the word “drove” is compelling, as it brings to mind images of a cowboy driving the cattle before him…or maybe a shepherd driving a lamb.
We see in this text that it is possible to be tempted by the enemy directly even after we have the holy spirit in us. Jesus was the earthly embodiment of the holy spirit, had been physically descended on by the holy spirit, and was still tempted directly by the Devil. I am not arguing that the enemy is responsible for every temptation we experience; as we discussed at length last week we are inherently sinful apart from Christ, and struggle with that sin nature even as redeemed Saints. We are Saints with a sin problem, but the enemy takes full advantage of our weakness whenever he can. If Jesus, the embodiment of holiness, could be tempted by the devil…how much more can we faulty shells be tempted? Furthermore, scripture tells us that the enemy does in fact seek out who he can tempt and destroy.
THE TEMPTATION PROCESS:
Now that we have the setting, let’s look specifically at the temptation process that Jesus went through.
I would point to two things: First, if you look at most old testament prophets, and the Hebrew people as a whole, God led them into the desert or into a time of scarcity and trial, to test their faith in Him and their faithfulness to His word, and we see this at work in Jesus’ battle of temptation here. He was led, like His people before Him, into the desert where all He had was the Word of God and a directive to be obedient.
Now, I’m about to tell you something that you might already know, but it blew my mind when I realized it. I’m going to go slow in case anyone needs to pick their brains up off the floor like I did.
The enemy attacked Jesus in ways that correlated directly to how he attacked Eve.
The Enemy attempted to come against Jesus AND EVE in the following ways:
- He appealed to Jesus’ physical craving for food – How was Eve tempted? The enemy used her need for food.
- Equality with God; the enemy enticed Jesus to prove his significance by forcing the angels to save him and by showing off that he was the son of God by commanding stones to become bread – The enemy also tempted Eve to attempt becoming equal with God through the medium of food.
- Appealed to the lust of the eyes – he showed Jesus all the kingdoms of the earth that could be his. The last straw that led Eve to sin was seeing the fruit was beautiful and good to eat.
- I am firmly convinced that these correlations are purposeful on the part of our savior. Jesus suffered the same temptations that Eve did, but endured. I also think that it’s compelling that, while Jesus came to be the better Adam, He was tempted and victorious in the same way Eve should have been. He went through the same experience as the first woman, but without flaw.
Jesus saw through the overall theme of sin. Sin sin promises something that it cannot deliver on.
Sin promised Jesus guilt free food, if only he mis-used his power and gave into his cravings. Imagine what would happen if he had done this. Would it really be guilt free? Not only would he have misused his power, but in one fell swoop Jesus would have given up his sinless nature, and would have squandered the inheritance he has as our savior.
Sin promised Jesus glory and riches and abundance, if only he were to bow down and worship Satan. But we know that the Devil is powerless to follow through on his promises to provide us any good thing. Scripture tells us in James 1:17 that every good and perfect thing is from above. Coming down from the Father.
Sin promised Jesus safety and the boasting of being rescued by angels if only he threw himself off a high place. But I’m fairly confident that this would not have happened…as Jesus said, we don’t put the Lord our God to the test. And I think we’ve seen in scripture that trying to force God into action doesn’t usually work out well for the one doing the forcing. I think of the example from last week of Saul trying to force God’s favor to be with them by sacrificing a burnt offering that was not his to offer.
In our own experience, sin promises us things every day that it is powerless to deliver on, and it lies to us about the reality of sin itself:
Sin says, go ahead and tell that little white lie; you’ll save your skin and no one will know. You can move on with life. But we can’t; the guilt hangs over us and our stomachs drop when the topic is brought up. Even if we’re never found out, our sin damages our souls. No sin leaves us unscathed. Scripture shows us that all sin, no matter how “small” we perceive it to be, separates us from God.
Sin says, go ahead and tell your friend the juicy piece of gossip, or talk in code about it; you’re not technically spilling details that aren’t yours. It’s not gossip if you pray for them afterward. It’s not gossip if you both promise not to tell. You’ll have the relief of getting it off your chest and the other person will know how to pray for them better.
Ephesians 4:29 – Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Scripture says in Proverbs 6:16-19 that a lying tongue is one of the things that the Lord hates and is detestable to Him!
Sin tells us reading a “christian romance novel” is fine. If the main characters quote scripture before they passionately make out it’s fine. You won’t be affected by it. You can’t look at someone to lust if you’re just reading about them! It’s not as bad as pornography. It’s okay to linger a little and let yourself feel some things. It’s such a fun book and the plot is good.
Sin says, just give in and watch a little porn. You need the release, and you’re not actually doing anything with another person. Sin says it’s okay to watch Bridgerton, or Highlander, or Game Of Thrones, or any of the popular shows that have heavy sexual themes. The main characters get married in the end, so if we don’t think about it too hard we can justify it. It’s not porn, is it? It’s just a TV show, and all the other parts are so good.
Sin says, masturbation isn’t mentioned in the bible, right? You’re not watching anything while you do it, are you? It’s just you and your body, and after all, God gave you the ability to do this. Is it wrong?
Colossians 3:5 – Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
1 Corinthians 6:18 – Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
1 Peter 2:11 – Beloved, I urge you as sojourners and exiles to abstain from the passions of the flesh, which wage war against your soul.
Sin gets us to slowly, piece by piece, syllable by syllable, deconstruct God’s words, wisdom, and principles for the sake of our own pleasure.
Science is beginning to agree with God’s word in some of these areas as well, which I am grateful for, as it points to the truthfulness of scripture. The Integrative Life Center, for instance, has an amazing article on the effects of pornography on our brains. The effects of porn use are mostly universal with both men and women.
- Over time, pornography use makes us incapable or severely hampered in experiencing true pleasure. Our brains are really good at forming associations and dopamine reliance. Being aroused and experiencing a climax based on porn or erotic movies/tv shows trains our brains that we get dopamine from those circumstances. Regular or even occasional use of pornography trains your brain to only be aroused and experience pleasure when you watch porn. This means that those who indulge in this sin will find it very hard to engage with and experience real pleasure when they have a real partner in front of them.
- This type of addiction makes both men and women more likely to experience mental health issues, such as anxiety and depression.
I would offer new names for those conditions in this specific circumstance: Condemnation and shame. Especially in the life of a christian who is indwelt by the holy spirit, we do know deep down that our sin is wrong, and if we live in un-repentance, we feel the shame and condemnation of that sin.
Science has found out what God already told us. These sins not only harm our souls, like all sin does, but harms our bodies in a way that is measurable.
Sin makes promises it cannot fulfill. Sin leads us away by the hand, promising sunshine and rainbows and fulfillment, while we’re led down a path that pulls us away from God. When I think of Sin and the lies it tempts us to believe… so many stories come to mind.
King David, tempted to think that sleeping with another man’s wife could be swept under the rug, but no matter how hard he tried in his own power, the evidence came to light and led to destruction and loss of life. I can imagine that the whispers of temptation in his mind were that he could follow his lust just this once, and no one would know. After all, her husband was away and he was a powerful King; she wouldn’t dare refuse or disobey him. Even if David hadn’t killed Uriah, David’s sin led to destruction of the covenant between Bathseeba and her husband. Scripture doesn’t specifically tell us about Bathsheeba’s state in all this, but I’m sure she suffered greatly because of David’s sin toward her. Not only was she forced into a state of unfaithfulness by the king of a patriarchal culture, she was likely forced into secret keeping from her husband. Scripture never tells us that Uriah found out.
Ananias and Sapphira – we’re not told in the text exactly what they were tempted to believe, but I’m sure they didn’t think that lying about the money they gave to the apostles would end being six feet under.
And even in a culture that denies God’s word, we see the truth of it at play in our media and the stories that have been told for centuries.
In the original version of the little mermaid, Ariel is promised power to make the Prince fall in love with her, but because that power is rooted in darkness and deceit, she ends up forlorn and alone, blown away to become seafoam for the rest of her life while the Prince falls in love with someone else.
Anakin Skywalker in Star Wars. Plagued by the knowledge that some tragedy will befall his wife in the future, he’s allured by the dark side of the force. The dark side promises that if he only joins in, he will have the power he needs to save his wife. Yet that very power that he is lended by joining the dark side is the same power that leads to death and destruction of all he holds dear.
Then there’s Hansel and Gretel. Led away by their gnawing hunger they enter the witch’s house that is bedecked and lush with candy. She promises abundance, nourishment, and safety, but her real plans are for their destruction.
Jesus saw through all the lies and empty promises from the pits of hell, and walked onward in victory and glory. Now let’s take a look at how he did this.
JESUS’ RESPONSE:
Jesus responded with scripture.
Jesus declared his obedience to the Enemy, and told him to leave.
Jesus started almost all his responses with the words “For it is written” – this was not a self help mantra, or to remind himself of truth. “For it is written”, followed by a scriptural truth that was directly applicable to Jesus’ circumstances. Jesus was proclaiming to the Enemy that he was committed to walk in obedience, and who held the real power to provide good. That power residing only with the Father. Now these verbalized truths were only effective because they were rooted in God’s word and in truth. Saying “Mmm, not today Satan!” does not carry the same power as God’s word. Not even close. He responded only with scripture; no added frills. He didn’t add naming and claiming, insulting the devil, or debate the lies he was being tempted to believe. He replied with scripture alone. Scripture was then and is now all sufficient to fight the enemy and remind ourselves of the Truth. And that is what we see Jesus do here. Effectively, when every lie and empty promise was brought to Jesus, his response was to say “No, that’s not right, because my Word says this, and that’s what I hold to.”
Jesus was able to have this response for two reasons. One, He was God. But another consideration that I think is critical here…Jesus was saturated in the Word. Even apart from his being completely God, and as John says, Jesus was “The word”. Even part from this, as a Jewish boy, he would have been taught the scriptures from a young age and been saturated in them. We see in this account that, when pressed, Jesus’ default setting is to bleed scripture.
Jesus spoke truth to the lies of the Enemy out loud, directly. This was not some trick, or easy hack to get the Enemy to leave Him alone. Neither was this a one time fix. Jesus had to respond directly to every lie the enemy tempted Him to believe, over and over again until finally telling the enemy to leave and the temptation ceasing. Each time Jesus refuted the empty lies of temptation, the Enemy tried a new tactic, and so Jesus had to respond.
Jesus spoke to the Enemy. This is something quite controversial in the Church, and as such I approach this with gentleness. Before getting into this topic, I want to circle back to our discussion last week. We are first and foremost led astray by our own sinful desires, that spring out of our inherent sinful nature. Our sinful nature is our first enemy.
The Devil is not omnipresent like our Lord, so I do not argue that the devil is behind every sinful temptation and we should go around rebuking every bad attitude as if it’s not our sinful nature anymore, but just the Devil.
But it must be acknowledged that the enemy is at work in our sinful natures, and takes every opportunity given to him to work for our destruction and separation from God. It is clear from the account we see in Job that the Lord in his sovereignty does allow the enemy to work in this world and to put God’s people through trial. We see this when the Enemy approaches the Lord to seek his permission to persecute Job and make him suffer. We see this in the letter of Paul to the Corinithians, where he tells of how he has pleaded with the Lord to take away his affliction. Most scholars agree that he was talking about some kind of spiritual battle. (2 Corinthians 12)
James 1:13-15 – “Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God,” for God cannot be tempted with evil, and he himself tempts no one. But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.
We first wrestle with our flesh, but if we do not master it, the enemy is there waiting to take advantage of our offered weakness, and drag us down. Our first enemy is our own sinful nature, but when the enemy sees that we are living in the flesh instead of the spirit, he readies his fiery darts to shoot through our lowered defenses.
I see no more compelling example of this than in Genesis 4.
Genesis 4:6-8 – “The Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why has your face fallen? If you do well, will you not be accepted? And if you do not do well, sin is crouching at the door. Its desire is contrary to you, but you must rule over it.”
Now I want to zoom in on the word “crouching” in this text. In the original Hebrew, the word used here is “rabats”. This word has a meaning that, quite honestly, whacked me over the head (No pun intended to Cain) . Just so there is no room for things to get lost in translation, I’m going to read directly from the concordance.
“The Hebrew verb “rabats” primarily means to lie down or recline, often used in the context of animals resting or crouching. It conveys a sense of rest, relaxation, or dwelling in a place. The term can also imply a posture of readiness or waiting, as seen in some biblical contexts. In ancient Near Eastern cultures, the imagery of animals lying down was common and often symbolized peace, security, and contentment. “
So, to phrase that scripture a little differently…if we do not “do well”, sin reclines and makes itself at home on our doorstep. This definition of the word implies that sin makes itself at home in us when we do not resist and rule over our flesh. While we acknowledge we have sinful nature, we must also be aware that there is a spiritual battle happening for our souls, for our affections, and for our attention. While the soul of those who believe in Christ is secure in Christ’s finished work at the cross, our affections and attentions are up for grabs on a daily basis. If we give into our flesh, the enemy will be thrilled to waltz through the door and devour our lives, piece by piece, through the open door we have provided. Spiritual warfare is a reality, whether we choose to engage with it or not.
Ephesians 6:12 – “For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.”
To quote C.S Lewis, “There are two equal and opposite errors into which our race can fall about the devils. One is to disbelieve in their existence. The other is to believe, and to feel an excessive and unhealthy interest in them. They themselves are equally pleased by both errors and hail a materialist or a magician with the same delight.”
I think there is a brilliance to Lewis’ insight here. The devil would be pleased and delighted, if every believer disregarded the role that the demonic plays in the life of the believer. On the opposite side, the Devil I’m sure is pleased with new age spiritists or those who are led astray to extremes in the charismatic movement, who see demons behind every negative thought and every sickness. Who spend more time rebuking the devil or consulting crystals than they spend in loving their neighbor and reading the word of God.
So to reiterate, I do not believe that we solely need to focus on the devil, and spend all our time rebuking that which is outside of our flesh. Not at all. We have a sinful nature within ourselves that we need to be at work to master, with the help of the Holy spirit. But when we don’t do this work faithfully; when we engage with our sinful desires and begin to follow them, as Eve did, the enemy is there ready to take up residence and make a home for himself in our hearts. However, scripture is clear that we are able to directly oppose and resist the devil, by the power of the Holy Spirit and of scripture.
Ephesians 3:16-19 – “I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.”
James 4:6-8 – “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded.”
Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. By his power alone are we able to resist and oppose the enemy. We need to be saturated in the word of God in order to be able to come against the lies of sin. We need to be saturated in the word of God to even be able to discern between the leading of the holy spirit and our own thoughts. We need to be saturated in the word of God to know the difference between the lies of the enemy and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. We have authority, in Christ, to speak aloud the promises and truths of scripture in the power of Jesus name, and to resist temptation. To remind ourselves of the truth. To proclaim to the enemy, as Jesus did, that the enemy is a liar, and his empty promises have no place in our lives as redeemed saints.
I don’t know about you, but as I think of all the different facets of my own sin that I need to constantly be engaged in fighting, it’s exhausting. I know that each and every one of us here are intimately acquainted with just how deep and pervasive our sin is, how much we struggle to overcome it, and how gutting and deeply discouraging it is when we fail. As you listen to all the ways that we need to be on guard and vigilant toward our sin, it’s so easy to feel like tossing our hands heavenward and giving up. We know that we’ll still make mistakes or choose sin at times. We know we can’t do it perfectly, and that stings. It might make it hard to even want to try and live in holiness. We feel the condemnation from our past that still haunts us, the present that we struggle with, and the future that we just know we won’t be able to act out perfectly.
Psalm 139:7-16 – “Where can I go from your Spirit? Where can I flee from your presence? If I go up to the heavens, you are there; if I make my bed in the depths, you are there. If I rise on the wings of the dawn, if I settle on the far side of the sea, even there your hand will guide me, your right hand will hold me fast. If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me and the light become night around me,” even the darkness will not be dark to you; the night will shine like the day, for darkness is as light to you. For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, i know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when i was made in the secret place, when I was woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.”
Romans 8:1-8 – “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death. For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin,he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed, it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God.”
Psalm 103:13-17a – “As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him. For he knows our frame; he remembers that we are dust. As for man, his days are like grass; he flourishes like a flower of the field; for the wind passes over it, and it is gone, and it’s place knows it no more. But the steadfast love of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting on those who fear him,”
Hebrews 4:15 – “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin”
He remembers your frame and that you are dust. He knows full well all that you are capable of, and all that you are not. The savior knows this because He came into this world in the likeness of sinful flesh, specifically to redeem you, and you, and you. He lived in this world in the flesh, facing every sinful temptation imaginable, yet without sin. He faced the temptation to lust, to steal, to lie, to cheat, to gossip. All the sins we struggle with, the ones we cannot even imagine, He endured and overcame. While we must engage in our sin struggles and seek in every situation to respond in the power of Christ, the full and final payment of our sins has been paid at the cross and our souls are safe with Christ. Christ has won the war, now it is ours to repel the fiery attacks of the enemy who nips at our heels while we walk home toward Christ.
I heard Krista Dunham teach once on Sanctification and she summed it up like this: “Sanctification is something that has happened, and is still happening.”
Beloved, Jesus knew every single sin you would ever commit when he chose to forgive you. He knew and forgave you, no matter how last-minute you gave in to your sin after struggling to resist. He knew and forgave you no matter how many times you’ve returned to your sin. He knew and forgave you, no matter how deep and pervasive the sin, or how seemingly trivial. The Savior saw it all and still chose to forgive you. This is our identity as redeemed daughters of the King. We are already eternally forgiven by a savior who loves us. It is now ours to operate from that standing we have as forgiven people, and live in the victory that is ours in Christ Jesus in our daily lives.
I’m really excited to get into the specifics of that in our final class next week. But for now, I want to leave you with this hope.
- 1 Corinthians 10:13 – “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.”
He who is Mighty has done a great thing!
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How Are We Tempted?

There are a lot of differing standpoints on the theology of sin. We’re going to start by looking at two of them.
The first viewpoint, stands firmly on the idea that since we are created in Gods image, and God doesn’t make evil things, we are born inherently good and without sin. According to this viewpoint, sin is something that we accumulate throughout our lives, and if we can just scrape it all off, we’ll get back to our original state of goodness.
A more common theological viewpoint is the theology of original sin. This viewpoint claims that ever since Adam and Eve sinned, every human being ever born has been born in sin, with an inherent sinful nature, and are doomed for destruction because of this sinful nature, apart from Christ.
Which argument is supported by scripture? Let’s take a look.
Psalm 51:3-5 – “For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight, so that you may be justified in your words and blameless in your judgment. Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me.”
We see here that we don’t even get to the part about thinking and living, before we are full of sin. Our birth and conception happen in sin. Our environment on this earth as a whole is fallen, and our sinful hearts swan dive into the quagmire of debauchery and disobedience the first chance we get, when our favorite toy is taken away or mommy says no.
In Niel T. Anderson’s book “Victory Over the Darkness”, Anderson says this. “According to Scripture, the center of the person is the heart. It is the “wellspring of life” (Prov. 4:23) In our natural state, “The Heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure.” (Jer. 17:9) It is deceitful because it has been conditioned from the time of birth by the deceitfulness of a fallen world, rather than by the truth of God’s Word.”
Jeremiah 17:5-9 – Thus says the Lord:“Cursed is the man who trusts in man and makes flesh his strength, whose heart turns away from the Lord.He is like a shrub in the desert, and shall not see any good come. He shall dwell in the parched places of the wilderness, in an uninhabited salt land. “Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.” The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; Who can understand it?”
If you’ve ever watched a Disney movie, you know the mantra: Follow your heart! This is a lie straight from the pits of Hell and Disney. Our heart is DESPERATELY WICKED. In our natural state we are not only at a baseline of wickedness, but we’re desperate for it! We all are guilty of trusting our own flesh/heart.
Not only are we guilty of trusting our own flesh/heart, but are cursed for doing it! The wages of sin are death (Romans 6:23)
Romans 7:15-25 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. Wretched man that I am. Who will deliver me from this body of death! Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself serve the law of God with my mind, but with my flesh I serve the law of sin.
So we see here that even as redeemed christian saints; as sinners who have been redeemed by the cleansing blood of Christ, our flesh is still striving to serve the law of sin. We have the desire to carry out goodness, but cannot in our own power. Our sinful condition is so innate and strong, that even after we are indwelt by the holy spirit, it still wages war against the holiness of the Lord that now dwells inside us.
Matthew 15:18-19 – But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person. For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.”
Our condition doesn’t stop there; at some ambiguous “heart” that we can imagine is tucked away and hidden from the world. Our actions are the fruit of the condition of our hearts. Our words reveal the condition of our heart, and we can all agree that our words are often a mirror that we would rather not look into for fear of what it will reveal about our hearts.
Hang tight, because it gets worse! It doesn’t stop at our words either. Out of our sinful hearts come things I’m sure we’d all agree we would never be guilty of; Murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.
Surely none of us are guilty of sins as bad as that right?
Matthew 5:21-24 – “You have heard that it was said of those of old, ‘You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment. But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.
Matthew 5:27-28 – “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
Jesus broadens the parameters for sin to include the things that don’t even come out of us. Even the thoughts we let ourselves linger on count as sin. The eyeroll and muttered insult about an annoying family member is sin. The spike of anger when someone posts something we don’t like, or a child doesn’t listen as fast as they should.
Basically, any reaction we have that comes from our Human Nature instead of the Spirit, most likely is sinful at least in its motivation, if not in its very nature.
Romans 8:1-11 – “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the spirit of life has set you free in Christ Jesus from the law of sin and death. For God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By Sending his own son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin, he condemned sin in the flesh, in order that the righteous requirement of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not according to the flesh but according to the spirit. For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit. For to set the mind on the flesh is death, but to set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace. For the mind that is set on the flesh is hostile to God, for it does not submit to God’s law; indeed it cannot. Those who are in the flesh cannot please God. You, however, are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if in face the Spirit of God dwells in you. Anyone who does not have the Spirit of CHrist does not belong to him. But if Christ is in you, although the body is dead because of sin, the Spirit is life because of righteousness. If the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, he who raised CHrist Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit who dwells in you.”
Alright, so can we all agree that we need Jesus and the Holy Spirit? On our own, apart from him, we are helpless to do any good, and on our own we decay in sin. But we have a great hope that I’d like to explore with you next.
“So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. Wretched man that I am. Who will deliver me from this body of death!”
We desire earnestly to do it rightly. To please our Heavenly father and walk the straight and narrow. But we just can’t seem to get out of the rut we’re in. Maybe it’s a chronic bad attitude, an over-reliance on alcohol, or a habbit you use to decompress after work that you know you’ve taken too far. Or maybe it’s something more serious. Maybe it’s an addiction to pornography, masturbation, same sex attraction that you aren’t fighting, or something that there isn’t even a label for, but that you know in your spirit is deeply sinful.
In Mark Comer’s “The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry”, he sums up the tension between our flesh and spirit like this.
“To be made in the image of God means that we’re rife with potential. We have the Divine’s capacity in our DNA. We’re like God. We were created to “Image” his behavior, to rule like he does, to gather up the raw materials of our planet and reshape them into a world for human beings to flourish and thrive. But that’s only half the story. We’re also made from the dirt, “ashes to ashes, dust to dust”; we’re the original biodegradable containers. Which means we’re born with limitations. We’re not God. We’re mortal, not immortal. Finite, not infinite. Image and dust. Potential and limitations. One of the key tasks of our apprenticeship to Jesus is living into both our potential and our limitations.”
*Disclaimer* I do not recommend this book to an immature Christian who does not have a solid understanding of scripture and discernment. Comer has some bad Theology mixed in with some good ideas, but the reader needs to be able to weed through that.
So now that we’ve firmly established we are sinful beings from the start, and keep on sinning despite our deliverance, let’s turn the page. I love to make things tactical, guys. The first step in addressing a problem is to acknowledge it exists. The second, as we’ll look at next, is to look at how the issue comes to be. So let’s look at how we are tempted to sin.
So moving on to point two. How are we tempted?
WHAT DOES IT LOOK LIKE TO BE TEMPTED AND GIVE IN TO SIN?
Genesis 3:1-7 – Now the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the field that the LORD God had made.
He said to the woman, “Did God actually say, ‘You shall not eat of any tree in the garden’?” And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat of the fruit of the trees in the garden, but God said, ‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’” But the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die. For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise,b she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. 7Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths.”
WHAT ARE THE STEPS THAT LED UP TO EVE SINNING?
Eve was tempted to:
- Question God’s word
- Question the consequence of breaking God’s word
- Will I really die? Surely not. Will it really hurt my kid if I yell at them? Will I really hurt my brain and damage my soul if I watch porn? Omitting truth isn’t really lying right?
- Trusting her own Judgment
- Lust of the eyes
- To be equal with God in standing and knowledge
- Legalism.
- We see here that Eve really was the first Pharasee. When asked by the serpent what God really said, Even adds onto Gods word. She claims that God said “Neither shall you touch it lest you die.” but there is no written record of God ever saying those words.
- Bert Spalding used the analogy once, that God gives us a highway, and we give ourselves guardrails. I think that’s very true in this case; she added onto God’s word, which was one of the steps along the way that led to her sin.
Eve wasn’t forced into sinning. Eve was deceived as she chose to lean on her own understanding rather than the words of the Lord. Now, this is going to be a big theme in this class, and really, the class all boils down to “Don’t listen to yourself, listen to God.” Class dismissed, we can all go home now.
The passage does not say “When Eve heard these persuasive arguments, she ate the fruit.” or “When the serpent put her in a headlock and shoved fruit down her throat.” No, the passage says “When the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of it’s fruit and ate,”. Can you hear her reasoning it out? I can, and if I’m honest, it sounds much like how I try to reason out my own sin. On a fundamental level, the moment we choose to sin, we are simply saying that we know what is best for us in that moment, and the Lord does not. As hard as that is to hear, and as much as we might not want to believe it, that is what our actions say. Because we have victory in Christ and are no longer obligated to sin, every temptation is already won in Him, and we simply must choose to either walk in that victory, or to turn back to our sinful nature.
Now, I acknowledge that temptation is brutal. We talk about it in these simple terms, but I know that the reality often doesn’t feel quite so simple. It is not a simple and off-handed thing that we can choose to listen to or not as easily as if it were a podcast episode. But it is also true that we cannot nuance our way out of good theology. Sometimes we work ourselves into such knots over our sin, that we need blunt reminders over how ugly our sin is, and how ugly our decision to keep choosing sin also is. This is where it’s important to remember that two things can be true at the same time: One truth is that our sin is horribly pervasive, difficult and gutting. But an equal truth is that sinning reveals our trust in our own understanding rather than God’s.
Now, we cannot talk about the first sin without also acknowledging Adam’s role in it. Turn with me to Genesis 2.
Genesis 2:15-17 – “The Lord God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to work it and keep it. And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, “You may surely eat of every tree of the garden, but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.”
Now seeing this, let’s look closer again at the account in Genesis three. When does the text say there yes were opened?
Their eyes were opened when Adam, the one God had directly spoken to, chose to sin…
Now, I’m not here to bash Adam and say it was really all his fault and Eve was some poor helpless woman. We can agree that both Adam and Eve sinned; it’s clear from the text that they did both know God’s word. But, at the end of the day, both sinned, and we’ve all been enjoying the not-so-great-fruits of that sin ever since, along with our own sin. In Adam, we see our own tendency to watch with rapt attention while someone else sins, and the temptation to join them in that sin when a bolt of lightning doesn’t immediately strike them.
Let’s look at another example.
1 Samuel 13:8-14 – And Saul waited seven days for the time appointed by Samuel, but Samuel did not come to Gilgal, and the troops began to desert Saul. So he said, “Bring me the burnt offering and the peace offerings.” And he offered up the burnt offering. Just as he finished offering the burnt offering, Samuel arrived, and Saul went out to greet him. “What have you done?” Samuel asked. And Saul replied, “When I saw that the troops were deserting me, and that you did not come at the appointed time and the Philistines were gathering at Michmash, I thought, ‘Now the Philistines will descend upon me at Gilgal, and I have not sought the favor of the LORD.’ So I felt compelled to offer the burnt offering.” “You have acted foolishly,” Samuel declared. “You have not kept the command that the LORD your God gave you; if you had, the LORD would have established your kingdom over Israel for all time. But now your kingdom will not endure; the LORD has sought a man after His own heart and appointed him ruler over His people, because you have not kept the command of the LORD.”
What are the steps that led to Saul sinnin?
Again, we see Saul leaning on his own understanding. He knows what the Lord has commanded through Samuel. He has seen the Lord work to deliver enemies into their hands and give them victory. He has direct experience with the God of Abraham and Jacob, through his own personal prophet!
Yet, he sees the troops begin to leave, and in his human understanding, thinks he must act in order to lock in the support of God. If I place myself in his shoes I can easily understand what brought him to this point. In human reasoning, a burnt offering equals the Lord’s presence. The Lord’s presence will equal confidence in the men. Confidence in the men will mean more of them stay. However, less troops equals less chance of victory. In this moment, Saul removed the character of the Lord, and the proven support and deliverance he had personally experienced from the equation. Saul decided that God couldn’t act unless he had the men he needed. When God is removed from our equation, we act in our own understanding, and as we in this scenario, it ends in disaster.
John 18:10-11 – Then Simon Peter, having a sword, drew it and struck the high priest’s servant and cut off his right ear. (The servant’s name was Malchus.) So Jesus said to Peter, “Put your sword into its sheath; shall I not drink the cup that the Father has given me?”
Don’t we just love Peter? I mean, the man sees a problem, and doesn’t hesitate to just dive into handling it. There’s no mention of his taking time to wonder about the implications of his actions, fearing for his own safety…..or of him inquiring of the Lord what the Lord would have him do; the Lord that was standing right next to him.
There are many more examples in scripture that I could bring up, but I’m sure we all begin to see the trend here. Temptation increases our bent toward sin, when we lean on our own understanding instead of the Lord and His Word. The Enemy would be thrilled, if he could simply get every christian to rely on their own understanding, instead of inquiring of the Lord in every circumstance.
Even if, in leaning on our own understanding, we do all the “right things”, it will all be meaningless if it is not empowered and motivated by the holy spirit.
We see this in the example of Saul, right? Sacrificing was an objectively good thing to do. Seeking to please the Lord was an objectively good thing to do. But he did it in his own understanding, and motivated out of fear, and in doing so directly disobeyed the Lords commands.
Even if, in leaning on our own understanding, we do all the “right things”, it will all be meaningless if it is not empowered and motivated by the holy spirit.
Another factor that I am convinced plays a major role in our sin, is “hurry.” We’re all aware that we are more susceptible to temptation when we are tired, hungry, alone, etc., But what about when we are hurried? Often, when there’s too much on our plates, and we’re left rushing from appointment to appointment, we can grow deaf to the voice of the Holy Spirit in our lives. This increases the bent of our hearts toward the cycle of relying on our own understanding. We’re in too much of a hurry to stop and pray; we need to rush rush rush. God begins to take a backseat to the next appointment we need to get to, the friend that needs our help, or the goal at work that we skip quiet time to go in early for.
Our souls don’t have time to catch up to our over-tired and over-taxed bodies.
To quote Comer’s writings again: “If the devil can’t make you sin, he’ll make you busy. There’s truth in that. Both sin and busyness have the exact same effect – they cut off your connection to God, to other people, and even to your own soul.”
Walter Adams, the spiritual director to C.S Lewis says this: “ To walk with Jesus is to walk with a slow, unhurried pace. Hurry is the death of prayer and only impedes and spoils our work. It never advances it.”
Proverbs 21:5 says that the hasty person comes only to poverty, and Proverbs 19:2 tells us the hasty person misses their way.
God did not create you to rush through this life playing whack-a-mole with our sin as we juggle the other spinning plates in our lives. Our walk with him and our spiritual health is to be our priority. We cannot know our sin, know our temptation triggers, and take the time to invest in battling them if we are too preoccupied with the rest of life. We as a people, as a church, and as women need to learn to slow down and invest in knowing our spiritual battles fully. To do that, we at a baseline need to take time to be acquainted with our condition and struggles
I am not advocating that we need to cancel all commitments to sit at home and read our bibles all day, or that we should fail to meet the needs of others that we feel convicted to do. This is not an invitation to laziness disguised as spiritual advice. However, there is merit to the practice of slowing down, and even having spiritual retreat days; something I highly recommend. I make it a practice to at a minimum have one day a month where I read, journal, and make a practice of sitting quietly before the Lord. Whether a whole day, an afternoon, or even a few minutes here or there throughout your day, we need to build habits of slowing down, and allowing our spirits to catch up.
We are spiritual beings, and must not make a habit of existing and striving only as physical beings, which is what begins to happen when we neglect our spiritual care.
It is a fairly common occurrence in the Jewett household for a certain scenario to take place when there’s something that needs building. Usually, I will approach my husband with a request for say, a new nesting box for the chickens, or a shelf in the kitchen. I’ll sketch up my idea for him, and he without fail will have some improvement or additional idea, before agreeing to work on it. Being the perfectionist he is, he will take time to think over how the shelf will be used, if this design really fits the purpose, what kind of wood would be best, what kind of fasteners, etc.
About two days into him putting thought into it, I get antsy, go out to the garage and find some scraps, and put the thing together myself. Bing, bam, boom, it’s done, I can move on with life, and onto my next hairbrained scheme.
There’s just one problem. I’m not an architect, and I don’t in fact know what I’m doing. Competency with a drill and hammer do not a carpenter make. I am, in my current state, ill suited to be making kitchen shelves. Usually my husband will graciously try to eke out some part of the project that I did well, and let it sit for a day or so before quietly taking it out to the garage to die and resurrecting it again as a better piece that actually suites our needs.
I am ill equipped for this role. I have no knowledge or authority over tools of the trade.
Not so for my battle with temptation.
But there is one thing that all christians, and everyone in this room, is equipped to do. I can say this without a hairsbreadth of doubt, backed up by scripture, and know that I am categorically correct.
Each and every one of us is equipped by God, through the Holy Spirit and Scripture, to battle temptation and be victorious. As Paul says in Ephesians, this is not of our own work that no one should boast; we have this power only as we lean on Christ for our every need and acknowledge our need for Him as our savior.
Next week, we will be looking at how we see that example lived out in the life of Jesus Christ. But for now, I want to leave you with some encouragement as we conclude.
Ephesians 2:4-7 “But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses made us alive together with Christ–by grace you have been saved–and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus,”
Psalm 3:5-6 – “I lay down and slept; I woke again, for the Lord sustained me. I will not be afraid of the many thousands of people who have set themselves against me all around.” Ephesians 6:10-13 “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, and against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of GOd, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day , and having done all, to stand firm.”
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M
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What Is Abortion?

In my last post, we looked at the statistics on abortion and some of the main arguments in the pro-choice movement. We looked at what the reality of rape and incest cases are in terms of abortion (only 0.4% of abortions). We looked at life of the mother and fetal abnormalities (1.4-2.2% of abortions).
We came to terms with the fact that 95.5% of abortions are elective, when there is no medical necessity and the life of the mother is not at risk. Now, let’s take a closer look at abortion. To do that, let’s look first at what abortion is not.
Abortion Is Not A Miscarriage.
An argument that has been rearing its head in the Pro-Choice movement is this; since miscarriages are medically termed “spontaneous abortion”, the body is then technically “murdering” it’s own baby. They say, you can’t call abortion murder without calling miscarriage murder.
A few things about miscarriages. They aren’t planned, medically induced, or controllable. Generally, most miscarriages happen before 20 weeks, according to the Medical Encyclopedia, and affect about 10-20% of women who conceive. Sometimes for reasons unknown the baby simply dies and is passed from the woman’s body. Other times it can be due to physical or emotional trauma experienced by the mother.
Abortion is not the same as a miscarriage, in that, miscarriage is a tragic but unfortunately normal part of what a woman can experience in her reproductive years. Most often, miscarriages are due to fetal abnormalities, hormonal imbalances or other physical issues in the mother that are not sufficient to support the pregnancy, infections, or trauma. In other words, something must be wrong for a miscarriage to take place. Miscarriages do not happen simply because the body decides it doesn’t want to be pregnant.
Abortion Is Not Safe.
Secondly, abortion is not easy and safe for the mother. In an article from Good Help Psychiatric Service, a study found that women who had abortions were 81% more likely to have mental health issues as a direct result of their abortions, and 37% more likely to experience post abortive depression, specifically. Consider the following excerpt from The National Library of Medicine on the psychological after affects of abortion.
“The results revealed that at least one third of the respondents have experienced psychological side effects. Depression, worrying about not being able to conceive again and abnormal eating behaviors were reported as dominant psychological consequences of abortion among the respondents. Decreased self-esteem, nightmares, guilt, and regret with 43.7%, 39.5% 37.5% and 33.3% prevalence rates have been placed in the lower status, respectively. Psychological consequences of abortion have considerably been neglected. Several barriers made findings limited. Different types of psychological side effects, however, experienced by the study population require more extensive attention because of chronic characteristic of psychological disorders, and women’s health impact on family and population health.“
That is just the psychological aspect. What about the physical health of the mother? After all, abortion is something that happens in and to the body. To talk about the complications, we now need to look at what abortion is and how it works.
Buckle in.
Abortion is the termination of a pre-born human life (fetus), either by poison, starvation, or dismemberment while the baby is still alive. Below I go into detail on abortion procedures, and exactly what they do. You might be tempted to skip this, especially if you’re a woman. I recommend you read anyway. As ugly as it is, this is the reality of abortion, and we need to acknowledge it.
The abortion pill: This type of abortion accounts for 53.0% of abortions to date, according to a study done by the Guttmacher Institute. Up until 10 weeks gestation, the abortion pill Misoprostol acts by first cutting off the food supply to the baby. This pill is taken usually in the abortion office, while the patient is sent home with the second set of pills. The second pill Mifipristone is taken, inducing a violently strong “period” that causes the mother to essentially give birth to her dead baby. Depending on her gestational age, she may see only blood clots, or she may see the fully formed baby lying dead on a pad or in the toilet bowl. The dosage of the pill Mifipristone given for an abortion is generally more than 4x the amount given to a full term pregnant woman to induce labor. This can often lead to hemorrhaging of the pregnant mother, retained fetal tissue, sepsis, and death. Because abortion pills can now be purchased online with no medical visit or proof of identity, this is a huge gateway for sexual traffickers, sexual abuse victims, and more. A man running a sex trafficking brothel out of his basement could order pills for the ones that got pregnant, and no one would ever be the wiser. Additionally, a woman could either be mistaken about or lie about the day of her last period, leading her to take pills that are not approved for a later gestational age of the baby. Add to that, there is no medical oversight on these abortion pill websites–have I mentioned there are over 70 of them? Now, if you google “complication rates after abortion pill” you’ll find a few studies saying that the rate is super low and the pills are super safe. These studies ignore one key factor.
If a woman goes to an ER because she is hemorrhaging, they won’t ask her (and she can lie) about if she took abortion pills. Thus her case won’t be recorded as an abortion related issue.
Another issue with this type of abortion is, because of the lack of medical oversight and thus no follow up care after the abortion, women can unknowingly retain fetal tissue (parts of the baby that don’t leave her body), leading to sepsis, and potential death for the mother.
Dismemberment Abortions (D&C): This is the next most common abortion, accounting for somewhere in the vicinity of 37.6% of abortions. During this abortion, the abortionist dilates the cervix (an incredibly painful process), before reaching into the womb with forceps. First, they find a limb and pull it off forcibly. They do this to all four limbs, before pulling out the torso and head. It is common on this procedure for the abortionist to have to crush the skull while the baby is in the death throws. The baby can also be seen on ultrasound shying away from the forceps and writhing in pain as it bleeds out and dies. The abortionist does nothing to attempt to numb the baby before hand. The child is completely alive and can feel everything.
Saline Abortions: This type of abortion (as well as D&C abortions) account for 37.6% of abortions. During a Saline abortion, the abortionist punctures and drains the amniotic sack of all it’s fluid. This fluid is then replaced with a potent mixture of saline, which burns the baby alive. This can lead to critical complications for the mother, requiring an emergency C-Section and can result in live births of the unwanted child. There are numerous adults around the world who are survivors of this type of abortion, because it can be done so late in the pregnancy. On her Youtube channel, Lila Rose interviews two adult female survivors of this type of abortion, which I highly recommend you go watch.
During this type of abortion, the baby inhales, choking on the salt solution. This burns and poisons the lungs, esophagus, vocal cords, and other organs. It can often take an hour for the baby to die. The mother will then go into labor, usually within a day, and deliver a dead baby who is shriveled and looks visibly burnt. In a bombshell report in 2020, bodies of 5 late term abortion victims were found in the apartment of a Pro-Abortion activist. In images shared by LiveAction.Org (Read Here) one can clearly see that these babies were past the age of viability and fully formed. A few of these babies seem to be victims of saline or lethal injection abortions.
But the babies don’t always die right away, or at all during these abortions. Consider this excerpt from the Charlotte Lozier Institute on the subject of Saline and late term abortions:
The CDC estimates that between 2003 and 2014, at least 143 babies died after being born alive during abortions, and the CDC acknowledges it is very possible that this undercounts the actual number. Additionally, the CDC report counts only babies who were born alive during abortions and then later passed away – it does not include babies who survived attempted abortions and are still alive.
Lethal Injection Abortions: During this abortion, the poison compound used to euthanize inmates on death (potassium chloride) row is injected directly into the baby’s heart, guided by ultrasound imaging. It is common with these abortions for the baby to be seen writhing and squirming in pain on an ultrasound while it dies. After their death, they are then either dismembered and pulled from the womb, or the mother gives birth to the dead baby.
These abortions are more common in the latter term, since they are more guaranteed to result in a deceased baby, and not an accidental live birth.
Partial Birth Abortions: This abortion method is used as early as 20 weeks, and sometimes right up until full term. During this procedure the abortionist, guided by ultrasound, reaches into the womb and pulls the baby most of the way out through the vagina. The abortionist will leave the head inside the womb, since, if the head leaves the womb, the child is considered officially “born”. At this point, the abortionist will then puncture the back of the child’s skull with scissors or scaple, before inserting forceps or some other tool to widen the hole. Keep in mind the child is still alive at this point, and has likely started to aspirate amniotic fluid due to pain and shock of the procedure. Once the hole is wide enough, the abortionist inserts a suction tool and sucks out the child’s brain. The child is now considered “brain dead”, and the collapsed head is then pulled from the body of the mother. The abortion is complete.
If you feeling like throwing up, crying, or punching a hole in the wall after reading the reality of what abortion is…good. We should feel grieved and angry that innocent life is being taken at all, let alone in such a hostile, violent, and evil way. We should be concerned for the moral state a woman must be in to contemplate killing her own child. We should be outraged on behalf of these murdered children that abortion is championed as a “fundamental right”, and as “healthcare”.
But the method of the baby’s death should not be by itself our reason for opposing abortion. If the method alone was our reason, then we would also have to oppose every method used to stop terrorists, serial killers on death row, or an attacker killed during a self defense situation. Death, in and of itself, is not the issue.
The issue is that all human life has inherent value from the moment of conception and the extermination of that life is an abomination to both the human soul that perpetrates that extermination, and to the life being snuffed out with prejudice. The issue is that pre-born babies are innocent image bearers of God, with the same rights to life, love, and the pursuit of happiness as you and I.
What about that child’s fundamental rights?
We should feel righteous anger at that life being snuffed out. We should be moved to act, to educate ourselves on this issue, and to stand boldly for the unborn. It is a reality that unborn children are being killed in the millions each year, while many stand by in silence.
I had the pleasure of listening to Samuel Sey speak on the issue of abortion a few weeks ago, and he said something on the topic that has stuck with me.
When speaking on how pervasive and widespread the issue of abortion is, Samuel said: “Silence and neutrality are no longer an option for Christians.”
This should upset us more than poverty. This should upset us more than childhood abuse. This should upset us more than who got into presidential office or whatever minor detail you didn’t like in the pastors sermon last Sunday.
Poverty, social justice issues, presidents and pastors are none of them final.
Abortion is.
Death is.
We, as people who are enjoying our right to life, need to fight for those whose rights are in jeopardy of being ripped away with violence and prejudice.
Will you stay silent? Will you bow and let the hordes of culture trample over their unborn for the sake of not rocking the boat too much in your circle of infulence?
Or will you stand in the middle of the road, feet firmly planted, and say no…even if that means standing alone?
I know one of those paths is a lot scarier and unknown. But I also know which path Jesus would take, and I’m choosing to follow His lead.
You?
Stay tuned, and stay informed.
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M
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Should Christians Be Pro-Life?

If you’ve been Youtube at all recently, driven past a sign on the highway, or been getting those pesky presidential campaign texts, you know that the issue of abortion is astronomically huge in our society.
I’m pro-life, I always have been, and I always will be.
I’m mainly directing this post toward the Church, because I see that most Churches under-discuss this topic, and I want to inspire change in that. I think many Christians honestly don’t know many of the realities of abortion, and would have different views if they really knew. This is a complex topic, and as such, I will be splitting it up into a few weeks. In today’s post, we’re going to be looking at some statistics on why women are getting abortions. Next week, we’ll look at what abortion is, and the following week we’ll look at ways to be involved and better educated.
In a study done by the Pew Research Center, around 33% of Evangelical Protestant think Abortion should be legal in the United States. In general, only 18% of adults in the United States who thought abortion should be legal didn’t believe in God.
This means that 79% of adults who think abortion should be legal are those who have some margin for God in their lives, or believe in Him.
Of those who think abortion should be legal in most/all cases, 22% attended church weekly, and 37% attended church at least monthly.
Clearly, being religious, attending church, or affiliated with a church does not equate being pro-life. This means, that there are very likely people in every church who support abortion. In my specific church, we have about 1000 people in attendance each Sunday, I believe. If this data from Pew is correct, that means an average of 220 of those weekly attendees likely support abortion. I surely hope that number is lower in my church, but reality is likely more in line with these statistics.
So why are Christians aligning with the Pro-Choice movement so much? I think I have an answer: empathy and compassion.
Culture also makes the argument that women need access to abortion because it’s only used for health of the mother, rape, and incest. They shout that abortion is not being used as birth control, but as a last resort. This is the drum they beat, no matter how off-tune it is, or how blatantly contradictory it is to the prior argument.
“Would you force a twelve year old who got pregnant from rape to carry that child?”
“Would you force a woman who was raped to carry another man’s baby?”
“I guess men can just choose women to carry their babies now, and rape whoever they want.”
These are some of the main arguments we are hearing from culture.
Unfortunately, the statistics disagree, and disagree sharply that these cases are common. Take a look at these numbers from the Charlotte Lozier Institute.
In the year 2023, there were an estimated 1,037,000 abortions carried out in the United States. This included abortion pills, surgical, and saline abortions.
Cases of incest or rape account for only 0.4% of abortions, nationwide, accounting for only 4,148 of abortions. This is the demographic that culture is saying need access to abortion. They hold this demographic up as the reason abortion needs to be legalized, and inflate what percentage of cases come from this demographic.
Health of the Mother risks account for only 0.3%-2.2% of abortions, accounting for between 3000-22,814 abortions. These numbers are also likely inflated, due to recent changes in what is considered “health” of the mother. Mental health, or her quality of life taking a hit can now be considered “Health of the Mother Risks” in many states. A woman could say that she wasn’t mentally prepared for a baby, and have that pregnancy terminated for that reason alone.
Fetal Abnormalities account for only 1.2% of abortions, accounting for 12,444 abortions. It is also common that babies that are believed to be abnormally formed in many cases turn out to be just fine. There are large percentages of women who are told to abort their child due to abnormalities, but the child is later born totally fine or with the abnormality not being as fatal or obvious as originally thought.
A staggering 95.5% of abortions are elective abortions for unspecified reasons, accounting for the remaining majority of 990,335 abortions. This statistic, unfortunately, is likely under reported. Due to recent restrictions on the abortion pill being removed, women (or men) can now access the abortion pill online with no required doctor visit, or proving their identity to another human being.

The statistics are clear, abortions are not being used in 95.5% of cases to save abuse victims. As such, that minority is not a sufficient data pool to attempt justification of what abortion is really being used for.
We cannot say that abortion must be legal because 0.4-2.2% out of over a million women needed them.
In fact, I would offer that these cases of Incest and Rape are proffered by culture as a reason for abortion to be legal, with the sole intent of empathy shaming those who stand against abortion. These arguments, while especially compelling to female compassion, do not stand up to logic.
“You force a teenager who’s been raped to carry a baby? How could you!”
“You would force a girl pregnant by her brother to carry that baby?! You’re just pro-birth, not pro-life.”
These types of arguments make it seem as if Pro-Lifers are the ones responsible for the hardships that arise in these types of situations. It also pulls the focus away from reality. Remember, only 0.4% of abortion cases are actually due to incest or rape.
95.5% of the time, abortion is not being used to spare abuse victims. In the 95.5% of cases, it is being used electively, when not medically necessary, to allow a woman to get out of an unwanted pregnancy.
We as Christians should have immense compassion for the minority of women who find themselves in situations of rape or incest. We should seek justice for those who abused them, and do all we can to help those women/children heal from the abuse they have endured. But we must acknowledge, as the statistics tell us, that they account for a sliver of a fraction of abortions carried out. So these cases cannot be used to justify abortion as a whole.
If a death is necessary to right the wrong of rape or incest, I would offer that it is the rapist or abuser who should face the death penalty as a form of justice. Killing an innocent life, and putting the mother through the trauma of abortion does nothing to punish the abuser, and only traumatizes the victim further.
The argument that women who are victims of rape or incest should be the reason for abortion to be legal also ignores another huge set of data. The NIH did a study on women who conceived after rape or incest, and found that 32.4% of those women carried the pregnancies to term, 5.9% put those infants up for adoption after birth, 11.8% had miscarriages, with just 50% choosing the abortion option.
Abortion is not the only option for women in these circumstances. Many choose to keep their babies, because they recognize that the child conceived from that abuse is not at fault for that abuse. Instead of passing the trauma of abortion down onto an innocent life, they choose to allow that life to flourish in spite of the circumstances it was created in.
As we begin to unpack this issue, the point I want you to take away is this; abortion is not being used simply for abuse victims. As the statistics clearly show, abortion is elective 95.5% of the time.
That is 990,000 babies dead in a year for no medically necessary reason.
Next week we will begin to look at abortion procedures, and unpack the reality of what happens during an abortion, both to the unborn, and the mother. But for now, let me answer the question I asked at the beginning of this post.
Should Christian’s be Pro-Life?
Yes.
Stay tuned, and stay informed.
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M
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To The Christian Holding Their Breath

God is still in control.
The Lord is sovereign over you and your circumstances, over this election, and over the decisions and policies of whatever candidate gets into office. The Lord was sovereign over the primary election, over every debate, breaking news article, and disappointment we’ve had since then.
Scripture tells us in Romans that no political leader or ruler is in power, except those who the Lord has put there.
Romans 13:1 – “Let every person be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God.”
If a candidate that grieves us and we didn’t vote for is voted into the Presidency, then that will be part of the Lord’s perfect plan. That President and everything he/she does will part of the perfect plan that the Lord has instituted to bring about His good will for humanity, and the second coming of our Savior.
“But what if there is election fraud, and the candidate isn’t really who belongs in power?”
God is still in control.
Human scheming and sin cannot, never have, and never will overcome the perfect will of God. If God sees fit to allow deception and dishonesty in our election process, then He is using that to accomplish something that is Good. If that happens, He has allowed it for a reason, and we must not allow it to cause us to question Him or to fear.
“But what if the candidate that gets in re-instates abortion protections and millions more babies die?”
God is still in control.
In that case, which I pray does not come to be, we will grieve. We will continue to fight for what is right, keep praying for changed hearts, and for women who are abortion-vulnerable to receive salvation. We must continue to do what we can to champion the cause of Life and un-born image bearers — all of which we should be doing already.
No matter what you fear may happen after this election, God already knows the outcome and it will be for your good, even if it doesn’t feel or seem good. While we live in this material world, our ultimate authority and hope is in the Lord. He alone is the king who can save, redeem, and restore us to perfect unity with the Father. Every earthly ruler will fail us and fall short, because every earthly ruler is not Jesus.
Jesus Christ alone is our King.
Jesus Christ alone is the one in whom we must put our hope.
Jesus Christ alone is our Savior.
Ephesians 1:21-22 – “Far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and above every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come. And he put all things under his feet and gave him as head over all things to the church.”
No matter what happens tomorrow, God is most certainly not surprised, and most certainly is still Sovereign.
Keep praying, and put your hope in no earthly ruler.
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M
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Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?

“I’m glad that at least one night a year, Christian parents let their children celebrate the Devil.”
This is a quote from Anton LaVae, the author of “The Bible of Satan” and the founder of the Satanist Church.
Now, I’m going to level with you. I’m a Christian, I never have celebrated Halloween, and I never will. I am firmly convicted that Christians should not engage in this practice, and I hope that by the end of this blog post, you will have that conviction as well, if you don’t already. I do not hold this conviction for legalistic or ‘holier than thou’ reasons, but firmly rooted on scripture and conviction from the Holy Spirit.
In a poll done in 2015, 59% of Christians polled said that had no issue with Halloween and that it was “all in good fun”. 14% avoided only the outright pagan elements, 21% avoided it completely, and 6% said they weren’t sure.
The History and background of Halloween is often debated in Christendom, but by and large you will hear two different theories. The first is that it used to be “All Saints day”, but later was corrupted by culture. I have not so far been able to find any evidence that supports this theory.
The second theory is that it is based off a pagan holiday in Ireland, that is still celebrated to this day. This Irish holiday is called Samhain, and the majority of Ireland recognizes their holiday as what inspired the American observance of “All Hallows Eve”. In any research I’ve done, the secular world and all of history agrees that the American holiday of Halloween has a direct line back to Samhain.
When confronted with the reality of the Halloween background, most Christians have the following argument.
“Well, we don’t observe it that way now. We aren’t trying to commune with spirits or any of that.”
While this may be the case, and I believe that Christians generally don’t have malintent with their observance of Halloween, I challenge this belief. The belief that you can be involved with and directly associated with a holiday characterized by darkness and evil, and be justified simply because you think about it differently or ignore certain elements, is flawed and unbiblical.
The main argument I have against Halloween is not actually my own, but scripture.
Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
What is Halloween characterized by, again?
Death, decay, jump-scares, horror, monsters, zombies, skeletons, ghosts, vampires, blood, potions, etc. Lawns are decorated with skeletons crawling out of the ground, ghosts hanging from trees, creepy dolls waving from a porch swing, bloody knives, spiders with massive webs, etc.
Tell me which part of Halloween is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, or praiseworthy? Would Jesus be go to a haunted house for fun? Would Jesus wear a costume covered in fake blood and wear bruise makeup?
So what are Christians to do? It’s a major holiday celebrated in a massive way by the entire country. Are we to sit it out? Ignore it? Do nothing? Deprive our children of a fun time?
Yes.
We are called by the Lord to be a holy people! (meaning: set apart). We are called to be not of this world! We are called to be the representation of Christ in this world, and – I don’t know about you – but I cannot for the life of me conjure up a world in which Jesus would be hanging skeletons on His home or dressing up in a witch costume.
Ephesians 5:11 says: “Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.”
Leviticus 19:31, “‘Do not turn to mediums or seek out spiritisms, for you will be defiled by them. I am the LORD your God.”
Galatians 5:19-20, “The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions,”
The question also must be raised, are all parts of Halloween wrong? One thinks of candy, fun costumes for children, pumpkin pie and cider. To this question I would say one thing.
If it is unique to the observance of Halloween, then yes, it is evil and should be avoided.
There is nothing biblically wrong with costumes. There is nothing biblically wrong with handing out candy. There is nothing wrong with getting together with friends, with cider, or other harvest time activities/decorations.
Now, this is a personal conviction, but if I were asked to attend or host a harvest party on Halloween, I would say no. My reason for this is simple; dressing up a pagan holiday to be more acceptable to Christians or less evil looking is a slippery slope, and would reveal that the condition of my heart was being allured far too much by the world.
Christians must not be deceived into compromising, and allowing ourselves to be directly associated with evil practices and imagery.
1 Thessalonians 5:22, “Avoid every appearance of evil.”
This post has barely scratched the surface of this issue, and is leaving much unsaid. This is purposeful, because my goal here isn’t to tell you to what to do on Halloween. My goal here is to present to you reality as I see it and as laid out in scripture, and to challenge you in making sure that your practices and observances of any day are firmly rooted in and motivated solely by scripture.
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M
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Can Christians Get It Right?

I had a conversation with a friend today that wandered into talking about Legalism. The idea that we can follow certain rules, and by doing so, we follow God.
We as human beings really want to “get it right”. We want a formula and steps that we can be assured will lead to our desired outcome. This idea isn’t contained to religion alone; we want to know which grades we need to get into which school, so we can get the job that will provide for and get us the house and spouse and dog and kids, and ensure we have a comfy retirement home.
We want to know which diet is the best to get us the best body.
We want to know which laptop will best suit our needs.
We want to know exactly how much money we need saved up and what kind of credit we need to get a house.
We want to know what rules to follow and what practices to engrain in our daily lives to please the Lord. We want to know exactly how much skin is okay to show at the beach, how much time to read our bibles each day, which prayers to pray, which person to vote for…the list goes on and on.
Is this ideal of perfection even achievable? I would argue that it is not, and here’s why. The goal of walking with the Lord is not to “Get it Right”.
The goal of walking with the Lord….is walking with the Lord.
We see this clearly displayed in the life of the religious leaders in the days of Jesus. If it were possible to please God by following rules and regulations, they would have been the ones to do it! But instead, Jesus refers to them as a brood of vipers (Matthew 3:7, 12:34), empty white-washed tombs (Matthew 23:27-28).
They had lost the relational and spiritual parts of relationship with the Father, for over-zealousness of rules and regulations.
They got lost in the weeds of trying to “Get it right”.
So what’s my alternative direction to point you in? It is surely not to spurn all rules, practices, boundaries or regulations. To the contrary, it is a commonly acknowledge believe among the body of Christ that it is wise and good to have regular practices such as quiet time, corporate worship and church attendance, prayer time, etc.
Sounds like I’m arguing you back into rules and practices, doesn’t it? I know, I know, it’s taking me a hot second to get to the point. We ADHD people tend to have these issues–SQUIRREL!!
But I digress.
The issue of legalism in my view, hinges on one thing: where the believers confidence in their salvation lies.
If I believed that praying every day, keeping the Sabbath, or listening only to certain kinds of music held sway over my salvation, you bet your last dollar I would never miss prayer time, make sure I didn’t violate the sabbath, and put strict perimeters on my Spotify playlists.
So we come to the issue of the Gospel. What does the Gospel have to say about where out security lies and what part we have to play in it?
“In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.” (Ephesians 1:13-14)
What I think is so interesting about this passage, is the use of legal/financial terms used to describe our inheritance of salvation. Two things can be true at once, and I think we see this at work here; it is true that at the moment we accept Christ, we are sanctified and restored to relationship with the Father. It is also true that we will never be fully sanctified (without sin) until we reach glory. And at that time we will have possession of our ultimate inheritance in Christ Jesus. Praise the Lord that I’m not the one responsible for holding that!
“Now to the one who works, his wages are not counted as a gift, but as his due. And to the one who does not work but believes in him who justifies the ungodly, his faith is counted as righteousness.” Romans 4:4-5
This verse I’ve always thought was a little more scary that it was comforting, and I’ll tell you why. If I get caught up in legalism/works…I will only get from God exactly what I deserve. This passage says it plainly, to the one who tries to work out his own righteousness, his wages are his due. But to the one who believes, his faith alone is counted as righteousness, just like Abraham.
So again, what’s my point? Clearly, we need to believe first and foremost in Jesus Christ, the son of the one true God, as our Lord and Savior. We cannot trust in works, other doctrines, or our own righteousness (lol) to save us.
…but we still live in this world and need to make decisions about what to do. I get it. Trust me.
I would argue that the solution to getting it right is this.
“What does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8
That my seem like an over-simplification, but scripture spells it out clearly. There are numerous other areas over the new Testament where Paul and other authors spell out simply walking with and trusting in the Lord as the fundamental most important practice we can have.
To think that we can reverse this process with success is, put bluntly, wrong. We cannot know the will of the Father and what pleases Him, if we are not first walking closely with Him, and deeply saturated in His word. It then follows that if we are in alignment with Him, we will be shown what is His good and perfect will (Romans 12:2).
As a downstream of that alignment, we may very well be shown by the Father habits and practices that are good for our souls and pleasing to Him. But it is crucial that we start first with relationship and alignment with the Father through His word, before seeking to develop habits. It is even more crucial that we do not view the habits or practices that we develop as contributing to our salvation in any way.
Habits and practices may, and should, have an affect on our continued sanctification–that is, making us look more like the Christ–but our salvation is a separate issue that is sealed and held by Him. If we have come to saving faith and are sealed with Christ, His seal on us and blood over us is so complete so as to make any effort we put forth to make it more-so, laughable.
The point is relationship-motivated obedience, and Holy Spirit led action, not action that leads to relationship and security.
So to answer the question this post asks…yes, Christians can “Get it Right”. If, by “Get it Right”, you mean walking with the Lord.
“In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:13-14
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M
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Who’s Watching You?

Lately, as anyone who follows me on Facebook knows, I’ve been swimming a lot. While I would love to say that my goal is the 2028 olympics, realistically, I am seeking to walk in obedient stewardship of my body, and tend to my mental health; swimming brings me great joy. Today, I was hard after a goal. After unsuccessfully trying to work on flip turns, I began swimming laps and getting in the zone. Pretty sure if I had tried one more floundering flip turn, the lovely old lady in the lane next to me would have called someone to rescue the girl who was clearly drowning herself!
When I finally stroked to the finish line of my 1500 meter goal, an imaginary sports commentator in my head yelled at the top of his lungs that Jewett was making her olympic debut by clenching a spot in the final and breaking a world record. No, none of that is remotely likely, and yes, you can cringe on my behalf. As I stood panting at the end of my lane, I became aware that someone was talking to me. A gentlemen a few lanes over had pushed up his goggles, the trademark sign that someone wants to talk to you. Apparently swimmers can’t use their mouths if their goggles are on. Trust me, it’s science.
Anyway.
This gentlemen went on to thank me for “finally taking a break”, because he’d been using me for motivation. He told me that he was struggling to get his laps in, and when he saw I was churning out laps, decided that he would keep going as long as I kept going. Little did he know I was going for a mile! In my breathless and I’m-about-to-pass-out-if-I-don’t-start-taking-deep-breaths state, I thanked him for the compliment, offered a tip on breaking up the monotony of laps, then swam a few extra laps once my breath had returned.
So what’s the goal of this story? It’s certainly not to talk about swimming, though I recognize I spent a chunk doing that. Can you tell I like the sport?
The point of this story is to talk about the influence we are on people without evening knowing it. I was an unintended influence to a complete stranger while, literally, staying in my own lane. There were no motivational Instagram posts involved, no medals won, no class taught, or sermon preached. The way I huffed and puffed back and forth through some water was a motivation to someone.
In this day and age, especially in the church, I think there is pressure to feel like we need to be a teacher, preacher, or some other title to be able to influence people for Christ. We see speakers, teachers, authors and christian social media influencers and wish we had their platform and ability to to teach the word and reach people for Christ.
Well, I argue that we have all we need already.
The early church didn’t have instagram. The early church didn’t have mass produced theology books. The early church (and Jesus, for that matter) had their voices, whatever letters they could right to each-other, and whatever teachers spoke at their local temple or synagog. Most importantly, they had the Holy Spirit. And the gospel spread like wildfire! People’s lives were completely transformed without ever once reading a Jen Wilkin book, or streaming a MacArthur sermon on Youtube.
As I think back on my life, I was most influenced by doing life with other Christians, and seeing them endure. Their faith and Holy Spirit empowered way of living helped me see that living this life was possible and if God helped them, He was probably able to help me too. I wonder what would change in the church if we stopped feeling like we had to attain a title before we started mentoring or discipling. I am in no way saying that we shouldn’t take advantage of good teaching, good books, and resources that may be available.
However.
We already have all we need through the Holy Spirit, Scripture, and our relationship with Jesus. Our lives are already a witness and example, whether that be a christ honoring or self honoring example. You already have an effect on those around you whether intended or not.
Thank you for attending my ted talk.
-M
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A Painful Process

I was having a conversation with someone this week (ranting, really) about some things that were frustrating me, specifically about a relationship that I was having issues with. I was expressing how I didn’t understand why I was feeling so much pain, why the situation had to be so hard, etc. The dear sister I was talking to made a comment in passing that I don’t think she realized had a nuclear impact on my soul.
“You’re really just being iron sharpening iron right now. And the thing is that’s not a gentle process. There’s fire and friction and slamming pieces together.”
I realized in that moment that I’ve heard that phrase from Proverbs thousands of times, but never really got to thinking what it means in a practical sense. I’ve always pictured it just being a christian “ism” that people use to mean “you’re making each other better.”
That got me googling the process of sharpening iron. Usually, you use something like a whetstone and gradually wear down the iron until you’re left with a sharp, thin, edge. If you’re trying to use another piece of iron to sharpen the piece you have, that process get’s tricky. It takes much longer, and can often result in sparks and fire because of the friction generated by the two pieces and all the repetitive motion. For this reason, using iron to sharpen iron is not common.
This is not to say that every situation where this is conflict is a sharping (sanctifying) experience, but I begin to wonder how many times I have shied away from certain situations when, really, the conflict I was seeing was just the beginning sparks of a sharpening experience.
When I looked up the meaning of the Hebrew word used in the famous Proverbs passage, the meaning is tied to sharpening swords, making ready for battle, or preparing for a slaughter. This got me very excited, and my mind instantly jumped toPsalm 144:1.“Blessed be the Lord, my rock, who trains my hands for war and my fingers for battle.”
Through the process of iron sharpening iron, we are better prepared to fight the spiritual battles and good works that the Lord has laid out for us in advance! (Ephesians 2:10)
I don’t know about you, but I think I’m carrying this confidence and this new thought into my week and walking a little bolder in my interactions with the people around me.
He who is mighty has done a great thing!
-M