Tag: christian

  • Why Waiting Sucks and Is Sanctifying

    Why Waiting Sucks and Is Sanctifying

    For the year of 2023, I have been in a season of waiting, and I still cringe at those words, even thought I’m the one saying them. Growing up, whenever I heard talk of “I’m in such-and-such a season”, I thought it sounded so cliche and could not role my…

  • Why I Stopped Reading Romance Novels

    Why I Stopped Reading Romance Novels

    **This post contains adult content** He’s rugged and mysterious, she’s the girl who doesn’t need anyone to save her. But before she knows it, her knees are weak at the sight of him, he’s slaying beasts to win her favor, and a passionate romance ensues. There’s tension, running into each…

  • On Condemnation No.2

    On Condemnation No.2

    My past fear reared it’s head a few weeks ago, and it was rough. For years as a child, teen and, if I’m honest, into the present, I struggle with fear in one main area. My Salvation. I can trace these fears directly back to watching some traumatizing movies, hearing…

  • The Legalism Letters No.2 – Alcohol

    The Legalism Letters No.2 – Alcohol

    Yep! We’re going there. A lot of Religious/Christian cultures hold the belief that drinking alcoholic beverages is wrong. Some, taking it as far as to say that Jesus turned the water into grape juice at the wedding in Cana, and that the bible says only to drink if you’re ill.…

  • The Legalism Letters No.1 – Modesty

    The Legalism Letters No.1 – Modesty

    I have no idea where God wants to take this blog post. I didn’t even have an idea what to write about when I sat down just moments ago, but when I did, the title of this blog rolled off the tips of my fingers, so I guess the Lord…

  • On Condemnation

    On Condemnation

    Most of my  life, I have struggled with the constant and unbearable feelings of condemnation and guilt. From the earliest memories I have, I remember feeling constantly wretched, less-than, completely sin filled, and like I was a culmination of all the worst parts of humanity it was possible to have. …

  • On Dwelling

    On Dwelling

    Close to the end of 2021, I had a lot of thoughts swirling around in this brain of mine. Thoughts about taking action vs dwelling. Thoughts about wanting to fix everything around me vs. stepping back and putting my need to take action into praying. I was constantly struggling with…

  • 2021 Reviewed

    When I think back on 2021, I’m filled with satisfaction. The person I am and life in general are almost unrecognizable a year later….but at the same time not much has changed. I know that makes loads of sense. 2021 stretched me in so many ways, most of which were…

  • Wife Skills: Communication

    As a married couple, your greatest tool is your ability to communicate with each other. Nothing can happen peacefully in a marriage without communication. Whether it is deciding how to steward your finances, or where to eat dinner on date night, your communication muscles are used every day. You can…

  • Grr. The Internet

    Whelp, something happened in the interwebs that I’ve been trying to figure out for weeks, without success. Somehow, my old blog page still exists for viewing, but I can no longer access it. It was somehow deleted from my account access, and wordpress has a strict policy against granting me…